We all want to hear from one specific person at times, and as a medium i can't guarantee who i will connect to.
Whether you realise it or not your loved ones come in many ways that you forget, don't want to know or they aren't giving the information you want to hear. When that happens it can be for a few different reasons; it can be grief, for yourself and those you lose. It's natural to close off emotionally at times and grief can cause that to happen too. We also close off in our minds where we only focus on certain things, or we only remember certain times or things.
Mediums can't cross the T's or dot the I's.
Sometimes a loved one will come with another, and if your focussed on one person you'll miss the presence of another. If your thinking you only want to hear x, y and z they could be bringing a, b and c as we can't demand what they want to say neither should a medium be just saying what you want to hear. if that happens you won't be getting the true essence of the person and ignoring the spirit person, and eventually they'll leave and the connection is lost.
Best thing to do in a reading or any connection is to relax, allow spirit loved ones to bring their evidence and guidance as they know what they want to say or what guidance is needed.
Elaine has a working class backround, and understands the trials of life. Here she shares some of her thoughts on many different topics